Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Have OCD getting compulsed to profess my love for a girl via email?
Well, the fact that you actually took a moment to post this question on here so you can consider replies says to me that your OCD isn't that serious. You do have some level of self control. My thought is to wait until she e-mails you back. Don't jump the gun. If you're already in communication with her she already has some inkling that you like her. You don't want to get overbearing or too needy right at the beginning. Second of all, I wouldn't confess you have OCD to her right away, nor should you do impulsive things and blame it on the OCD. Like I said, obviously you do have *some* control so blaming it on OCD is bogus. And you should wait until you're further in the relationship and know each other better before dropping such heavy duty info. Think about it, man...if you were still in the getting to know one another stage and some girl let it drop that she was d as a child...that might make you think twice about dating her. There's a stigma there, like it or not. However, if you got to know one another and she liked you and you're dating...then that would be the time for initimate disclosures. Keep your personal information personal until you're getting personal. And as for what to say if she e-mails you back with her number...dial it down a notch and keep it casual. Say you think she's really cool and really pretty and you'd like to go out with her some time. Don't get overly emotional and don't start the "I love you" bs this early. That's a huge red flag.
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